My two year old daughter has been quite the hit on Facebook lately. It started when I posted this:
The comments were unanimous:
I could use her help at my house!
Please send her over!
I need her to come by and take some things off my list, too.
I joked about how she dropped the pen when I walked into the room. I said she could start her own business, "Time Management, by Cate" and the tagline could be, "Just don't do it."
The whole exchange was a fun sidebar to a busy week. I held three days of auditions for Listen To Your Mother, and I'll stop there. I'll resist the urge to name all of the other things on the to-do list—all the things that Cate scratched off. I won't try to convince you that my plate is full.
Cate's (not so) innocent act of scribbling my plate clean made me think.
Right now my list is full of things I can't, or don't necessarily want to, scratch off. Between now and the middle of May, I'm in deadline mode. I love the projects I'm working on, and there's a certain thrill to the momentum it creates.
But, there are limits to how many things I can accomplish in one single day. Last Monday, I was frustrated that I had to use my prized "preschool time" to get some meds for the cold that had clearly turned into an infection. I felt like I was losing precious time, taking a detour in my morning just to tell a doctor that I felt like my head was going to explode and I couldn't stop coughing and blowing my nose.
An hour later, I left the doctor's office with a prescription. The simple act of slowing down and taking care of myself made me feel almost instantly better.
I keep learning this lesson over and over.
Recently, I stumbled across a TedX talk by Erin Giles, charging the audience to F their plan, and find their point. Cate had it absolutely right. It's not about getting it all done... check, check, check, check. It's about being a better gatekeeper of what's on the list in the first place.
Being busy, balancing my big visions and high expectations while simultaneously crashing into my limits, forces me to ask: What's the point? What's the why?
When I answer that, I see the day—and the true priorities—with a new set of eyes.
I'm also considering making Cate my assistant. She's really on a roll these days.
How do you manage your own personal "crunch times" and mile long to-do lists? Do you have any personal tips for staying focused and sane? Do you ever feel yourself losing sight of the big picture... and if so, how do you regroup?
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